What To Do When The Stars Don’t Align For You And Your Lover

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Love is gloriously beautiful when the stars align. It’s a magical, other worldly experience that makes your heart sing and passion flourish through your nethers. You fall in love, and live a blissful life with minimal confrontation and disagreement. But what do you do when the stars don’t align for you two?

Well you have two very different options.

Stay Together

Staying with a person who is not an astrological match for you doesn’t automatically mean that they are going to cause destruction and mayhem in your life. It simply means that the likelihood of destruction and mayhem is increased. Bare with me. Your astrological sign has a huge influence on your personality and temperament, two of the most important compatibility qualities in any relationship.

Staying with someone when the stars don’t align for you two, could be keeping two people from finding their relationship bliss, but it does have a couple of personality benefits to consider.

First of all, you’ll become a pro at compromising, since you’ll be doing it all the time to find a common ground where you’ll both be happy. But that’s good, because you’ll have to compromise in almost every aspect of your life too, and you know what they say — practice makes perfect.

Secondly, you’re world will not be closed off to opposing viewpoints. In fact, the opposing viewpoints may be called to your attention on a fairly regular basis, in your own home. It may happen so often that it becomes second nature for you to look at both sides of an argument before you even have it, which can come in handle in both your professional and personal relationships.

Break It Off

Some say that being in love means being willing to put yourself second to the needs of your partner at every turn. But that would mean that your compatibility doesn’t matter at all, because no matter what it takes, you’re willing to sacrifice your own happiness for the happiness of your partner. This way of thinking could create turmoil within yourself and your relationship.

Breaking it off with someone when the stars don’t align for you two can be difficult. If you can get past the initial heartbreak though, this journey will provide you with a couple of life lessons too.

For starters, you won’t constantly be fighting with someone about both the important and the inconsequential moments in life. You’ll be free to make the decision that will provide you with the most happiness, rather than settling for a solution that is only a slight variation of what you desire. And isn’t life hard enough, without having to come home to another battle?

Furthermore, if you break it off with the wrong person, you will have opened yourself up to being available to meet the right person. The person that you won’t have to compromise your happiness for because they will be the keystone of your joy. And when the stars align you’ll realize that compatibility makes all the difference.

Find Your Perfect Match Below

The next time you find yourself questioning your happiness in a relationship, take a look at your astrological compatibility, and see for yourself if the problem might be that the stars just aren’t aligning for you two.

• Aquarius You Are Most Compatible With: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius
• Pisces You Are Most Compatible With: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn
• Aries You Are Most Compatible With: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius
• Taurus You Are Most Compatible With: Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn
• Gemini You Are Most Compatible With: Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Libra
• Cancer You Are Most Compatible With: Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio
• Leo You Are Most Compatible With: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius
• Virgo You Are Most Compatible With: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn
• Libra You Are Most Compatible With: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius
• Scorpio You Are Most Compatible With: Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn
• Sagittarius You Are Most Compatible With: Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Libra
• Capricorn You Are Most Compatible With: Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio