A difficult aspect is on the horizon. On October 25, Venus forms a square aspect with Neptune, and while this is a short transit, it can definitely make the next few days a bit tougher to get through. Don’t lose hope-these feelings will be fleeting, but if you handle them recklessly, you could face long-term negative consequences. While Venus can often make us feel more confident, Neptune, the planet of dreams, can also cloud our vision. In this case, the square aspect with Neptune makes it challenging for us to see the better side of ourselves, and we focus intently on our flaws while over-idealizing others. Here’s what you might experience:
- Feelings of insecurity.
Above all, this particular aspect can bring out intense feelings of insecurity. You may feel insecure about your body, your style, your overall appearance…or your insecurities can run even deeper. You might doubt those who really care about you, or question your career and lifestyle choices up to this point. This can result in intense inner turmoil.
- Looking at things through rose-colored glasses.
While this aspect can cause us to view ourselves negatively, we see others in a more positive light, but surprisingly, this is not usually a good thing during this time. Often, the people we view positively during this aspect do not deserve our praise, and we can be drawn to these people like moths to a flame. Our vulnerable state can attract those who prey off such vulnerability, so it’s important to guard yourself and your emotions.
- Need for validation disguised as need for affection.
When you’re feeling insecure, you may feel like if you had someone around who would support you unconditionally, you would feel better about yourself. If you’re single, this might cause you to seek a romantic partner. But you’re not looking for romantic affection, you’re looking for validation. Don’t attach yourself to a potential love interest if all you really want is someone to reassure you that there’s nothing wrong with you.
- More likely to use alcohol or drugs.
You may be more inclined to party, drink, smoke, or try other addictive substances during this aspect. Limit yourself-this might make you feel better in the moment, but it will not help you at all in the long run. In fact, if you do something out of character while under the influence, you may feel even more insecure because you acted out of control. It’s best to turn away from these substances and seek a healthier outlet for self care, like exercise or yoga.
- Be careful-others may try to take advantage of you.
Being skeptical of others’ intentions may feel unfair, but it can be vital under this aspect. People with bad intentions will feed off your insecurity, and it’s in your best interest to be wary of those who come into your life during this time. You don’t need to turn away every potential friend or love interest, but you should definitely be careful about who you choose to open up to.
